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Prayer, Patience, Perseverance and Surrender pay off. Its my personal experience. Meditate and Communicate. It will definitely help you find a way out.
ALWAYS KEEP SMILING.
God Bless Your Family.

Love
Sandra

What I wrote is not some dry words from the intellect but something that I’ve experienced and learnt from other’s experience.

Whatever decisions we take has two outcomes-success or failure; and that’s why to avoid or escape the latter outcome I suggested (from my experience) Momo to surrender to the divine.

The day you start seeing people around you as “souls” and not humans, you’ll forget this word-selfish. I’ve met many selfless people, believe me. There are different layers of existence and different layers of consciousness which we are not much aware of; this can’t be revealed and so we do not find much about them in the books, they are to be experienced. So if you prioritize goals like this it’s natural that you get rid of vices in the manner of the tree i.e. there’s no need for us to pluck the withered leaves from the trees in fact they fall automatically. Similarly, we get rid of vices. I’ve never seen AOL as a family made up of humans. Remember, Gurudev often talks and has a vision about Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam. So following his words I try to see the whole world as a family.

I believe that destiny can be altered. To find out how…. just keep reading…….

Sanhita Karma and Prarabdha Karma: (see reference in the footnote)

Some karmas can be changed and some cannot.

When you prepare a dessert, if sugar or ghee is too little, you can add more. If some other ingredient is too much, it can all be adjusted and repaired. But once it is cooked, it cannot be reversed.

Milk can become sweet yogurt or sour yogurt, and sour yogurt can be sweetened. But neither can be reversed back to milk.

Sanchita karma can be changed and adjusted by spiritual practices. Prarabdha karma cannot be changed. And satsang burns the seed of all negative karmas before they are given a chance to sprout.

Reference: Pg. 10, An intimate note to the sincere seeker, Vol 1, Vyakti Vikas Kendra India, Publication Division; Compiled by: David L. Burge, Gary Boucherle, Bill Hayden & Anne Elixhauser

Thanks,
Nikhil

Dear Madam,

Jai Gurudev.

It seems too many people are concerned about your present and future life. Lucky!!! The suggestions posted by these souls are worth accepting, but then I do understand that "easier said than done."

Surrender: Whenever a soul is in problem it tries its best to work it out. When the problem is totally out of control the last thing it tries is praying to the Almighty. And we all have experienced that prayers are answered but the time frame is decided by the Almighty. This process is called Surrender. Surrender is happenning. So I suggest you to pray to the Almighty or to your Guru to give a feasible answer to your problem. Just ask him to drive your life and trust me you'll be happy no matter whatever scene you are into.

Benjamin Franklin says, "Those things that hurt instruct”; And Gurudev says that every problem and mistakes happen to make the person learn from the situation. Just ask yourself that what does the Almighty wants you to learn from this situation? I'm sure contemplating would find you an answer. There are no problems/mistakes in life, only lessons which will allow you to grow and advance higher on the path of self-mastery. And don't forget that "Any mistake happens only through ignorance, not through intention."
And the essence of genius is knowing what to overlook. I'm sure you are a genius.

Don't event think to lose HOPE:

Gurudev once said, "Once a fairy gave four candles to a boy. He took them home and lit them. The first candle told: I am wealth as you are poor I can't be with you and it blew off. The second candle told: I am happiness as you don't have money I can't be with you it too went off. The third candle told: I am love as you don't have money and happiness I can't be with you and it too blew off. The 4th candle told the weeping boy: Don't worry I am hope you can light all others with me."

So don't lose hope.

Success:
Lastly, Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way.

Thanks,
Nikhil

So you want to seperate - divorce. Well if it is only about disagreement with your husband for many things it is O.K as in disagreement there has to be two. i mean when you disagree both of you are responsible the problem is when one gets into who is more right.
Give space to yourself and your husband. i hope you have done some course of Art of Living and so has your husband. If not it will not be a bad idea to do it but be sure you do not get a NO when it could have been a YES.
Guruji is concerned a lot for each one of us and has talked on many subject if one goes into it sincerely there is no problem which does not have a tail as a solution. If a problem does not solve it has to be a fact and one should accept it .
Wishing you momo ( what a nice name ) , your Husband and Your lovely children a Happy Journey Togather. MAY THE BLESSING OF GURUJI BE ALWAYS WITH YOU ALL.
girish

Jai Gurudev

Check the talk CD, "Marriage, a commitment". This talk has relationship management techniques :)

With lots of Love
Suresh
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The best vitamin to be a happy person is B1

What Guruji says on this;

Q : No love between husband and wife, we have one child, should we divorce

A : What is marriage ? I am there for you , to support you , come what may.
Divorce should be the last alternative, where both of you are in hell,
miserable for quite some time or from day one you have been miserable then
its better you go your own way. Marriage builds patience, accommodating,
commitment, dedication, in marriage all these things can happen, is it not.
I think so I’m just guessing ( laughter )

Q. How to maintain harmony with husband or wife?

A. Keeping silence. There was a german in the ashram. He fell in love with
an italian woman. But this man has divorced thrice before. He felt this is
the ideal soul mate. He asked me," Guruji, I have met this italian women
she is my ideal soul mate. I want to marry her. But the problem is she
doesn't know german and I don't know italian. How can we together live a
happy life?". I told,"Don't teach her german and you don't learn italian,
you will live happily." Now they are married for past 13 years.

" Continue Arguing Look at this arguing mind. This is what you have been carrying all these years---and you want to continue carrying it? " SRI SRI

Doing things "together " is the KEY - WITH togetherness there is no conflict
Step One - HAVE you ( both ) taken the courses - together ????
( together means OUR idea & NOT - my idea or your idea )

************** NOW work on this thought - TOGETHER ******* :-)

God ALWAYS works in beautiful ways ... while we ignore the obvious - right on the face & in the face

- One Smart brain to use
- TWO eyes to observe
- Two Ears to Listen
- One nose
- One Mouth
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look in the mirror ( RIGHT NOW ) and observe...

level 1- Brain is at the top
level 2- Ears and eyes are at the same level ( That is four things )
level 3- nose for breathing etc
lowest level on the face is * MOUTH * ( chin is a jaw bone )
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MOUTH is situated lowest & below 6 other parts.

so Mouth should be used in the same proportion 1/6 of everything else.

99% problems are due to the Mouth-speaking ( more that 1/6 allocation)

eyes- Blink open & close naturally,
nose- air comes in & goes Naturally
ears listen naturally - even when sleep ( that is why alarms are usefull)
your heart beats naturally etc. etc. so many things

** E X C E P T *** THE mouth ...........wonder why - it opens only when you want to.

Becuase it is meant to be ??? Used with wise discretion / choice .

Celebrate more silence - MORE often

jai Gurudev
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