I was looking at the dictionary definition of the word "situation" and here is what I found.
1.The general state of things; the combination of circumstances at a given time.
2. A condition or position in which you find yourself.
3. A complex or critical or unusual difficulty
If you look at all these definations,that most important thing we see is that they are all passive ! We find ourselves in a "situation".
Whereas if we look at the behavior of our mind,it keeps getting into the "WHY" mode, and we try to find out a a WHY behind every situtation ! After a few advance courses I became aware of the damage the why's were doing to do me.
As Guruji rightly says just convert that Question Mark "?" of why into an exclaimation mark of "!" of WOW and just say wow and accept the situation anyways you find yourselves in the situation and every sitiation might be a result of millions and trillions of event of the past....so dont go after finding the answer to that WHY just make it WOW and smile !
